Simple

Assalamualaykum, Alhamdulillah

I have the vision of this article yesterday. So, let's talk about simple. How do you define simple? Simple means, nothing complicated. Easy. How do you imagine your life being simple? A boring life. Seriously, a simple life needs to get off some limits. You life needs to have twist and turns in order to be more colourful and meaningful.

Is that what i want to talk about? Well, let me show you how simple an idea which leads a way to be complicated. Then, how simple you should be because being simple is the way you are.

How simple i am? I am simple in almost everything physically. I dressed up in a simple way. I look like a simple girl. For example, most of the girls love to wear various make ups. They will have many types of creams and eye shadows, bla bla bla. Me? Some face powder, eye liner and lip gloss. Sometime i don't even put on any make up. Just a plain face. Why? It is because i want to look as simple as i can. I don't need to put a lot of effort just to make a guy to compliment me. Or just to let the society to see how good you can dressed up. tbh, sometime i do put some effort to dress up. That only happen when I want to look like a proper person. A look that will make people realize that i am a seventeen years old teenager.

What i mean here, you don't have to put a lot of effort in 'looking good'. You can just be yourself. As simple as yourself. If you love make up, then go on. If you don't, then just don't force yourself just to be accepted into a group of people. It is not worth all of the effort. Don't fake yourself.

"I only show what you need to see." No matter how you try to gain people's interest, there will be people who is not satisfied with you. So, stop faking yourself for others. :)

Simple can get complicated. Really. It always occur when you want to choose something. Example, you want a yellow dress. Then, you see there are various styles of yellow dresses and different tone of yellow. It gets complicated. Am i right?

Usually we have simple plan but things just don't happen according to what you plan. Actually the twist happen for your own good. If it doesn't happen, i bet you will never learn anything new.

Me? I just want a simple relationship. Someone that promise me a future that he is really sure of. I mean, he meant every word he ever said to me, and all i have to do is be loyal with our vows. The thing is, love is never that simple. You got dumped, you had been cheated, you lost trust and so on. The chances of being break are a lot higher. I understand how some people used to say, without any rejections and arguments, you will never learn to appreciate and be considerate. It's true tho.

I failed in every relationship i had with guy. LOL
But i learned a lot. I learned to be more simple and relax. Never put any high hope. You can feel a bit sweetest but get really for a pile of pain. Love can never be simple even thought you try.



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Conclusion, keep it simple. Just be yourself. Life is too short to fake it. Life is too short to regret what you never do. Feel like doing it, just do it!

InshaaAllah, with Allah's blessing, all of our decisions will be guided by Him. :)