Assalamualayum, Alhamdulillah

Here i am to express my opinion about being a leader.

Leader, why do you define it? I define it as someone who is give power to lead people in his or her society. Being a leader is not easy and it comes with a big price and responsible. That is why not everyone is given the opportunity to lead. But if someone is given the power to lead, it means, the society actually trust him or her. So what you must do? Do not failed them!

No matter how kind or generous you are, some people still do not like you, in other word, hate you. You can't simple beg or go down to your knees so that they will like you, adore you. That is so not true! You can't forced them to like you and it is not an option. They have the option to do what they want just like you. You must live with all the haters and all the bad comments. That is how we are going to realise our flaws.

People hate you. You get two options, ignore them and try your best to lead or hear them and cry until you bleed. Choose.

You will never lead a society alone. You got your friends and supporters. Your teammates especially! They are they one you should listen not the minors who knows nothing about your position. Some leader tend to look at the dark sides and cry about it like a garbage beg. While you can share your worries and troubles to people who actually can do something about it.

I know how it feels to be hate. To be ban. To be alone where not even my parents are there for me. I know the struggle and the emptiness. I felt it. I feel the pressure myself. I am being realistic. Now, do you see me crawling in the corner of dorm, crying about it? No.

Take one example, our Prophet, Muhammad S.A.W, he is the most perfect leader of all but some people still hate him. If he was alone, he prayed to Allah, asked for His mercy and guidance. He did not went around and asked everyone to like him. He did not tell the society his problems except for his best friends. He listens to what people wanted to say. He leads no matter what happen. He never gave up. Look now. Everyone knows him until now. Look at his success.

Everything back to Allah.

You can never realise how strong you are until one day, you have no option but to be strong. Pushing yourself away is not going to help you. Running away from your problems also will not help you as it will appear back in other condition or generation.

So, i am asking you leaders, do you really need to choose to be weak.

When the society see you being weak and useless, they mock you. They questions the people that had chooses you. Aren't you feel ashamed of yourself? While your teammates are struggling to fix things that you had done. Struggling to make you realise and pray that you come to your senses.

Walking away will not help.

Its too late to turn back. If before this, people saw you as their leader or saw your ability to lead, why do you failed to make people see you as a leader now? Where is your leadership? Did it wash away like your spirits? Spirit is what you must find in order to lead.

I know that it is easy to say that being done but i had gone through it so, it is not impossible.

Stop. Stop letting others to destroy you bids by bids. Stop doing things that should not be done. Stop. Stop being weak.

Ini baru perjalanan sekolah menengah. Belum perjalanan di peringkat IPT. Belum sebagai seorang suami. Seorang bapa. Seorang pekerja. Atau seorang boss. Leadership is important.

Assalamualaykum, Alhamdulillah

After 3 week ehh, here i am back.

I have to much to say but i can't recall back everything that i had in mind.

But what i am focusing today is about big city and big brother.

Currently i am in Kuala Lumpur which is the capital city of Malaysia. I am actually a city girl but, just a minor city. I spend my childhood in a medium life. Let me define medium life, i am not from a rich family but we can afford the living. We don't usually shop branded stuff but sometime we can afford some. Then we develop, my elder sister and my elder brothers, they started to discover the outside world. They expose me about what they had discover, which is a good thing because it opens my eyes. I guess that's why my mind develop faster. I mean, i have many opinions about the society. Ok back to the topic.

As they discover the world, they start to 'develop' themselves. They ..... urgh....sometime they take their friends as their priority. Well, city change people. People change just like the city. They develop.

If you observe the city, first they develop until they have everything. Then, it develop more and more and more until things become kinda worse. I mean look at the city yourself. The poor become poorer and the rich become richer, the medium are struggling to maintain their position. No matter how develop the city, criminal cases still increase and in my opinion, Malaysians are developing the wrong thing. They keep on develop until they forget to upgrade. Upgrade their weak spot. Find what is wrong and fix it. Just like human.

We grow and grow. But along the journey, do we ever look at our own reflection and fix what we suppose to fix. Or at least, be different. Walk away from the same thing. Instead of looking for fame and money, look for adventures and motivations. Find and know ourselves. Learn from the society's mistake. Learn from it not follow it and repeat the same drama.

Some people, they are keen of being easy. Everything they want, they get it. My brother is someone like that. but in the end, things turn out to be..... dirty. He forget to appreciates.

Just like the city, it forget that before it become a city, it was just an empty land filled with dirt. Then people come and polished it and one day it become a big city. Now, the city itself is killing the people. People are struggling to keep up with the city developments. I know we are not suppose to blame the city because it is not a living thing and 'people' themselves are the one created the city.

I am not blaming the creator of whatever. We have the choice to do something. We had been guided but, because of the sense of selfishness, we forget. The different between human and the city, human have brain which is functions, which means, they have the choice to be good or bad. The city itself is not a living thing but something human create by the sense of deed to greed. The city itself didn't had the choice to be good or bad but turns out into whatever because of human.

I know this post is kinda complicated but i hope you guys can sense what i wanted to talk about.

We have the choices. We must be wise with our decisions.