Dear AKS please.

Assalamualayum, Alhamdulillah

Here i am to express my opinion about being a leader.

Leader, why do you define it? I define it as someone who is give power to lead people in his or her society. Being a leader is not easy and it comes with a big price and responsible. That is why not everyone is given the opportunity to lead. But if someone is given the power to lead, it means, the society actually trust him or her. So what you must do? Do not failed them!

No matter how kind or generous you are, some people still do not like you, in other word, hate you. You can't simple beg or go down to your knees so that they will like you, adore you. That is so not true! You can't forced them to like you and it is not an option. They have the option to do what they want just like you. You must live with all the haters and all the bad comments. That is how we are going to realise our flaws.

People hate you. You get two options, ignore them and try your best to lead or hear them and cry until you bleed. Choose.

You will never lead a society alone. You got your friends and supporters. Your teammates especially! They are they one you should listen not the minors who knows nothing about your position. Some leader tend to look at the dark sides and cry about it like a garbage beg. While you can share your worries and troubles to people who actually can do something about it.

I know how it feels to be hate. To be ban. To be alone where not even my parents are there for me. I know the struggle and the emptiness. I felt it. I feel the pressure myself. I am being realistic. Now, do you see me crawling in the corner of dorm, crying about it? No.

Take one example, our Prophet, Muhammad S.A.W, he is the most perfect leader of all but some people still hate him. If he was alone, he prayed to Allah, asked for His mercy and guidance. He did not went around and asked everyone to like him. He did not tell the society his problems except for his best friends. He listens to what people wanted to say. He leads no matter what happen. He never gave up. Look now. Everyone knows him until now. Look at his success.

Everything back to Allah.

You can never realise how strong you are until one day, you have no option but to be strong. Pushing yourself away is not going to help you. Running away from your problems also will not help you as it will appear back in other condition or generation.

So, i am asking you leaders, do you really need to choose to be weak.

When the society see you being weak and useless, they mock you. They questions the people that had chooses you. Aren't you feel ashamed of yourself? While your teammates are struggling to fix things that you had done. Struggling to make you realise and pray that you come to your senses.

Walking away will not help.

Its too late to turn back. If before this, people saw you as their leader or saw your ability to lead, why do you failed to make people see you as a leader now? Where is your leadership? Did it wash away like your spirits? Spirit is what you must find in order to lead.

I know that it is easy to say that being done but i had gone through it so, it is not impossible.

Stop. Stop letting others to destroy you bids by bids. Stop doing things that should not be done. Stop. Stop being weak.

Ini baru perjalanan sekolah menengah. Belum perjalanan di peringkat IPT. Belum sebagai seorang suami. Seorang bapa. Seorang pekerja. Atau seorang boss. Leadership is important.