
Assalamualykum, Alhamdulillah
I am sorry cause i had been busy lately. I got an important examination coming so soon.
Ok, a little down the road.
This guy is a good man. But he is a strict father. Some of his children like to go against him while some prefer to keep quiet. The thing is, the younger children prefer to go silent rather than the older ones.
One day, something happen. The elders fight with the father. The younger child only stay silent but actually she is screaming her heart out...in...the silent...
Fights occur more often that makes that little girl sad and depressed. She wanted to voice out but ... she know that no one will listen.
What will you do if you are in that little girl's place?
Well, i am that little girl ...
I am not expecting any sympathize or anything but, i just wanted to advice to people who are willing to read this.
I am not an old lady or what ever. You can judge me whatever you want.
Firstly, be grateful that your parents are still alive and still provide you foods, shelter and whatever you want.
Then, always imagine you take your parent's place.
Then, no matter how hurt you felt, always apologize to them in the end because we never know that the harsh words can be your last conversation with them.
Lastly, pray to Allah (God) for the best solution.
Having problems and misunderstand among family members are something that used to happen or will happen. What is the best thing to do is, stay in silent. If you wanna voice out, talk nicely... Harsh words are not helping AT ALL. You just need to sit in the same table and talk about it. Discuss.
I know it is complicated when it involved about age and levels or whatever that shows that you are too small to give out anything you wanna say but that does not mean, you don't have the rights.
I know that its hard, but, me, myself are trying to plan to voice out. I just need some support and courage..
Then other thing happen.
To be honest i was hoping for courage but it seems that Allah loves me so much do He give me more challenges.
It looks like, the one i care already careless about me. I am nothing to him. So, now, i am empty about guys.
I know that what happen is for the best. So, i will seek and pray for courage to make the universe agree with me. I wanna make things right.
I dun expect things to be according to what i had planned. But at least it go the right and the best for me.

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