Definition

Assalamualaykum

Hey. How are you? It is good to know that you guys are feeling fine. Me? I am preparing my gear for an important examination. My trial exam is just around the corner. 10 August. Pray for me yaaa.

When you want to know the meaning of words, you look up in the dictionary, right? You google up. You LOOK for a definition. But, do you ever make your own definition based on what you feel or look or whatever, as long as it is not from any books or website.

How do you define happiness? Sadness? Friendship? Love?Compassion?

Everything is actually based on what you feel all along. Let me give you guys some of my definition.

Love, a feeling that make you care about someone or something no matter what they had done to you or what their history look like.

Friendship, a relationship with organisms no matter it is human or plant or animal, as long as it is a living thing that you can see talk touch and that organisms accepts you for all your flaws and never want you to change your true self.

Brave means, go ahead and never look back.

There are tons of definitions. For me, my own, YOUR OWN, definition matter the most. Why? It is because you are feeling it. The dictionary is just a bullshit to make everyone to be robot.

In this world, changing is normal. The weather change everyday. Sometime it is windy and sunny sometime it is sunny and dry. It is the nature. Human do change but there are things that are always there. Like, even though it is raining, the sun is still there. You see that now is day, but that does not mean the moon disappears. Your definitions, maybe you have different structure of sentences but the meaning is actually similar to other in many ways. Something that is same is ALWAYS there where it cannot be change. Nature proves it.

That 'something' is the IDENTITY. If you cannot accept that 'something' in someone, don't expect someone to give a damn about you.

Sometime, you just need someone to get your 'something' to make you care about them. At least they try to accept it. They may complaint but they never want you to change it.

How to know what is your 'something'? If you change it, you will be a whole new person. Example, i used to laugh everyday, suddenly one day i stop laughing, people will look at me as i had changed. I have weird attitudes that sometime annoyed people, when i stop being annoying, the person who cares, will asked me why.

People that care about you is the only person who realise your change. If that person you thought care about you but they want you to change your something, they are lying. I mean, they actually never care. All they care is themselves. They are the selfish ones.


The lesson of the day, be yourself. Don't let others tell you what you have to be. Changing is normal. You will change eventually. All you need is love towards yourself. Find your own identity. Be someone independent.

Ok, wish me luck. Forgive me if i said anything that offend you. Thank you for reading. Love you'll. xoxoxo