AGE LIMIT

First of all, is age a problem for you in choosing a partner?

In my humble opinion, as long as that guy (because im a girl) is not older than any of my siblings, I guess it would be decent. I mean, honestly I would refer someone slightly older than me because mostly they are mature. Well, I mean, someone who is lack of experience but full of judgement like me would have that kind of opinion, I guess.

A guy choosing a younger girl also make sense. I mean, most of them like "young looking" girl. (most of them) Honestly, i cant blame them.

If a guy that prefer an older woman, we must look at the other factors. I mean 'older' here as a lot more older, not just 1 to 3 years. Here is what i think logic:
- already became close since small or for a long time
- younger looking
- successful
- rich
- being seduce and that guy has no other options
- desperate
- 'love is blind'
- mother-like
- caring and sweet

At this time being, thats all i got.

Am i being sarcastic? I am being honest. I mean, as long as you are happy and your partner is your 'dream come true' then i guess its okay.

I am here just to say what i think suppose to be said.

I dont care who you are with or whatever. Its just, if your family is against it, dont you think you should at least listen why?

Life is not just about love. You can simply say it is because you are madly in love now. "Love is blind".

Okay, if you are a successful person, dont you want a successful partner too? At least someone in the same level. I know how the theory of "susah senang bersama". It make a lot of sense for the time being.

I know that i am toooooo young to judge or complaint about something like this. I sound insane! I know...

I witness many types of relationship. I learn that love is unavoidable. Being alone could be brutal. Broken heart felt unbearable. Its would still be okay.

Once you settle down, suddenly you changed your mind that lead to another broken relationship until one day, true love.

Once you settle down, your dad against it yet you still make it work. You never give up to prove that its the best decision you made. You improve yourself. Yet, it would never be easy to actually gain the trust back.

Once you thought you settle down, you decided to take another path. You said you are hurt but you are hurting others. There are still a lot awaits, still, you choose the rough path.

Once you thought you settle down, yet you go against the current and ended up having 2 family...

Once you thought he/she is the one, they broke up with you with a lot of excuses. All those years together turns to ashes.

Do i need to give any other situation? I've been there as an observer to a lot of relationships by the people around me.

I dont care if you want to go on with anyone.... all I can say

Choose wisely.

There are a lot to chase rather than just a person.

That person might be permanent.
That person could be a lesson.
That person could be just for inspiration.
That person is just another pit stop while you are walking towards the destination..